2 Corinthians 6:14-18
14 Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness? 15 And what concord hath Christ with [Satan]? or what part hath he that believeth with an infidel? 16 And what agreement hath the temple of God with idols? for ye are the temple of the living God; as God hath said, I will dwell in them, and walk in them; and I will be their God, and they shall be my people. 17 Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing; and I will receive you, 18 And will be a Father unto you, and ye shall be my sons and daughters, saith the Lord Almighty.
We all know that the things around us: the people we hang out with, the activities that we're about, and the environment in which we spend time, can have a profound impact on us. These things change us. They affect us. If I had hung around the skunk for awhile longer, I would have been quite stinky for quite some time. In like manner, these things close to our life have a tendency of rubbing off on us or changing the way we think or act.
If you've ever spent time in a place filled with people that smoke, you know what I mean. You might be in there for only a (seemingly) short time, but for the rest of the day you can smell the smoke in your clothes. One time I came home from my company's Christmas party and I believe that we had Bible Study that evening. I did not change my clothes—I wore the same sweater as I had earlier in the day. Throughout the evening, I kept getting whiffs of the smell of beer. I wished I had changed my clothes because I wasn't crazy about carrying around that smell all night, even if it was so faint that nobody else could smell it. I have noticed the smell of cigarettes on my jacket after hanging it next to other jackets when I'm getting a haircut. If our clothes can pick up these smells just by being near other things for an hour or two, how much are we affected by allowing our hearts and minds to be “close to” the ways of the world or our lives to intermingle with those that have rejected God? Do you not notice a bit of a change in the way you think, the way you act, the way you speak, or your overall desire for the purity of God?
I'm not saying that you should run off and be a hermit or something and never have any contact with anyone, especially people outside the church, lest you be dirtied by them. No, I'm talking about close relationships and intimate dealings. I understand you are going to be subjected to coarse talk and actions at work, in school, and around town. So while we can't avoid everything, we can at least spend much time in prayer, seeking God for guidance and protection. And we can make decisions that are holy instead of choosing to wallow in the filth and hang dangerously close to the stinky skunks.
John 17:15 – I pray not that thou shouldest take them out of the world, but that thou shouldest keep them from the evil.
Amos 3:3 – Can two walk together, except they be agreed?
